Our life is build by our own thoughts and we tend to generate an identity for ourselves as a result of experiences we have gone through. Eventually that identity impacts our whole life and being. It will be reflected in our perspectives, thoughts, feelings, and what we attract, specially if we have passed through trauma, hardship or shock.

We tend to label ourselves based on those incidents and that’s what exactly happened to me. I had strong belief of keeping quiet and putting a lid on my griefs and sorrows. Why? Because I didn’t want to be perceived as a weak person. To me talking about those stuff was weakness and debility. I wanted to be known as strong and stubborn person.

I realized later that I constantly labelled myself as “unlucky” and that’s what I attracted practically to my life.  

How harsh I was on myself! 

That  realization led to another transformational shift in my mindset and that simply was ” I need to accept myself and choose the right label to attract what I truly deserve in my life.” 

That was a perfect equation for me.